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| Steph ~ daughter of Anita Yeo |
I'm so sorry.... |
January 23, 2008 |
I am so sorry for the loss of your precious son. I have also lost the most important person in my life, my loving mom, on Oct. 4, 2006. Not a day goes by that I don't think of her or miss her. I've passed her one year anniversary and I still have those memories of her in the hospital. I wish I could say that it'll get better. I don't think it will, I think you just learn how to cope with life.
I pray that you will find peace and comfort in God's love for you and Brendan. Remember the good times and remind yourself that one day you will see Brendan again and you'll get to hold him and talk with him again. This is not the end but just a waiting period until we are reunited with our loved ones.
Also know that there are many loving people out there who know what you're going through and would like to help. If it weren't for the kind people I met through memory-of.com, I don't know what I'd do.
God bless you Brendan and your family. Watch over them and let them know you are still with them.
Hugs,
Stephanie ~ daughter of Anita Yeo
www.anita-yeo.memory-of.com
| Granny to Angel Stephen Turney |
My Condolence |
January 22, 2008 |
To the family of Angel Brendan:
I am so very sorry for the loss of your precious Brendan. My heart just hurt's for the pain that your family must go thru. I know for our family it is a pain that ease's some with time,but may never go. I'll put you all in my prayers tonite and ask God to give you strength.
Hugs to you all
Sue Ashley-Granny to Angel
Stephen Turney
| Denise Kneale |
Condolences On The Passing Of Brendan |
January 22, 2008 |
Dear Family, I am so sorry for the passing of your dear son and brother Brendan.
It is such very early days for you at this point in time, and if you're like the rest of us, when you look back in the 2nd year you will realise that you were living in auto pilot mode.
I can only give you advice on how to treat yourselves, which is:
Rest when you need to, cry when you need to, go with your feelings as they will come like waves, talk about Brendan if you need to and most importantly, take good care of yourselves.
My belief system is this:
Death is the biggest lie we have ever been taught, there is no death only change.
Seeing death as the end of life, is like seeing the horizon as the end of the ocean.
Brendan will always be near to you all, so look for all the little signs you will get, ie a song on the radio, a feather, a butterfly.....most don't recognise these as signs that their loved ones are near.
Please feel free to email me if you ever want to talk: magentacharlotte@btinternet.com
Love and Blessings to you all
Denise mum to James. http://james-kneale.memory-of.com xxx
| Debi |
Mom to an Angel too |
January 22, 2008 |
Please accept my deepest and most sincere condolences in the loss of your handsome son, Brendan. There is no deeper pain, nothing that crushes the heart and soul, like the death of a child. I just never dreamed that anything so traumatic and heartbreaking would ever happen to me...but then it did.
Our son, Andrew, died of blunt force trauma to the head following a car accident on July 16th, 2005. I can honestly say that the first year is one that I remember very little about; it came and went. I still find myself wondering when he's coming home, yet I know that he's in Heaven and I know that he would not have wanted to live in a vegetative state.
I know that Andrew has welcomed Brendan to Heaven and will become fast friends with him. As you continue on this journey, please know, always know, that you are not alone.
May God Bless Your family........Debi Collins
http://andrew-collins.last-memories.com
| Rose Leo McPhee Mom |
I am so sorry |
January 22, 2008 |
Dear Family of Precious Brendan I was given this poem when my son Leo died almost 2 years ago in March at the age of 16 to a foolish game called space monkey AKA The Choking Game I am sending this poem to you I only hope it can give you some small comfort as it has given me
"A Letter from Heaven"
To my dearest ones, some things I’d like to say...
But first of all, to let you know, that I arrived ok.
I’m writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above...
Here, there’s no more tears of sadness; Here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I’m out of sight.
Remember that I am with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you, when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, “I welcome you.”
“It’s good to have you back again, you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family... They’ll be here later on.”
“I need you here badly, you’re part of my plan.
There’s so much that we have to do to help our mortal man.”
God gave me a list of things that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on that list was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day’s chores put to flight,
God and I are closest to you... in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth and all those loving years,
Because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry: it does relieve the pain.
Remember that there would be no flowers unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
If I were to tell you, you wouldn’t understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o’er.
I’m closer to you now than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb,
But, together, we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I’d like it for you too...
That as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who’s in sorrow and pain,
Then you can say to God at night, “My day was not in vain.”
“And now I am contented that my life was worthwhile.
Knowing as I passed along the way I made somebody smile.”
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
Just lend a hand to pick him up as on your way you go.
When you’re walking down the street and you’ve got me on your mind;
I’m walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it’s time for you to go, from that body to be free,
Remember, you’re not going... You’re coming here to me.
(Author unknown)
| Lissa Big sis to Darrell |
I know how lost you can feel |
January 22, 2008 |
My deepest empathy is with all of you who miss and love Brendan. Know you are not alone. My brother was killed in a car accident May 14, 2005. The first year we all just lived in a daze. Not only did we lose someone that was part of each and everyone of us. But, we were traumatized by what the accident had done to his body. When I spiral into self pity I think of other angels like Brendan and know me, my mom, and brothers are not alone. This pain seems so inhumane and how could our lord let it happen. Three years later I can tell you that God does love me and that we each have a path. My brothers young life has inspired me to do so many things and my ability to truely feel compassion has soared. I miss him everyday. I know my mom cries for him everyday. I know his twin looks in the mirror everyday waiting for him to talk back. I know my youngest brother holds his pain deeply and carries it with him everywhere. But, we have recognized that Darrell loved us all so much and loved to see us laugh that it would bring him immense pain to know he took that from us. So, we go on. We do special things to keep his memory alive. Some people understand and those people stay in your life. Others just can't understand and they drift away. This is a whole new life we are living. Darrell has died. Life cannot go on as it once did. It isn't even possible. Look to the future, feel the wind on your face, let a tear fall and use the love you feel for Brendan to better yourselves. It isn't a perfect path we all fall but, know you are not alone. My brother was the joker in our family. Thank you for introducing me to Brendan. His memory lives in Wisconsin. Hugs to all. Lissa Big sis to Darrell Gillis www.the-bigd.memory-of.com
| Susan |
My prayers are with you |
January 22, 2008 |
I am so very sorry for your loss. I lost my youngest son in a car accident. He was just 24. I wish we didn't have to feel this pain, but I have met so many angel moms to help me through it. Your angel is forever in my heart & prayers and I know that he has so many many angels to play with until you arrive. I know my son is one of them. If there is anything I can do, please don't hesitate to ask. Together we can ease the pain, together we can keep our angels memories alive. My prayer to you is that God sends you comfort. xxoo Susan, mom to angel Kurtis Cleaver
http://kurtis-cleaver.last-memories.com
http://kurtis-cleaver.memory-of.com
| Janeane Bricker |
My thoughts and prayers are with you |
January 21, 2008 |
I'm so sorry for the loss of your son Brendan.He is such a handsome young boy. I lost my only 9yr old son Brandon Lee in July of 06. Our children left this world far to soon for us to ever understand why.I wish I had the perfect words to make things better for you but those words don't exist.Myself and all the other mothers who have lost their children will all be here to help you all we can. We understand the pain all to well.I can only pray that God surrounds you with his love. But my heart and mind tell me that I wish neither of us had a reason for having a memorial site for our beautiful children. You will always be in my thoughts and prayers. If you ever need to talk, I'm just an email away @ jamminjaneane@yahoo.com
My sons site is @ www.brandon-bricker.memory-of.com
Love Always Janeane Bricker
| Donna-Corey's Mom |
With deepest sympathy |
January 21, 2008 |
I have never had the honor of meeting Brendan but I do know the incredible, everlasting pain of losing a child. On August 17, 2003, we lost our precious son Corey (20) and his new beautiful bride Michelle (22), less than 3 months after they were married. Our lives will never be the same and there is not a single second of the day that we don't miss them with all our hearts. It has been 53 long and painful months without them. Your loss of Brendan is so fresh, my heart truly goes out to you and your entire family.
I never realized just how many people have lost a child until we lost our son and daughter in-law. In the past 53 months, we have met so many wonderful people who have also lost a child/children and it helps so much to have people who know and understand the depth of our pain. The Compassionate Friends (TCF) is a wonderful group and hopefully you've found a chapter in your area? I don't know that I could have made it this far without the love and support of so many wonderful people, most of whom are complete strangers. I pray that you also have found that comfort. This beautiful memorial site for your handsome son Brendan, is a wonderful tribute to his loving memory. Thank you for sharing his life story. God bless!
Hugs & Prayers,
Donna-Corey's Mom
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